2009/08/29

gender discrimination


#more than 15 millions childrens that is actually should be at primary school cannot attend to school.For every 100 boys and 115 girls can't attend to school.


#for every 1 minutes,one woman will die because of pregnant problems,which is increase to a more than half million women that has already pass away around the world.99 % mother was die occur in develop country,which is 90% of them in continent africa and asean.





2009/08/24

Tip on effective communication



Communication is a learned skill.Speaking,listening to our ability to understand verbal and nonverbal meanings are skills we develop in various way.In daily life,communication breakdown often causes misunderstanding and misconception among people.Effective communication better within peer group and between close friends.


Message,not messenger

Sometimes we tend to have a preconceived opinion about someone before we truly understand te messages.We are quite unlikely to listen to his message with full attention beside we often judge our messenger by his appropriate manner.We should be remind ourselves that message,and not messenger,is the reason for communication.


Listen first,evaluate later

We should all try to understand the messenger`s view point before evaluating his point of view.Do
not prompt into judment,decision and conclusion when we are not sure about what has been said.


Mutual trust and respect

Two persons who communicate with mutual trust and respect will find themselves less defensive
about own ideas.Messages are fully understood because the messengers are almost equally
sincere in exchanging ideas.


2009/08/10

youth subculture

EMOTIONAL MUSIC
Emo is a style of rock music typically characterized by melodic musicianship. Emo including by music of pop,punk,havy metal and other.Emo also can describe related as fashion,behavior, and culture.

fashion
wearing skinny jeans

bright colors, and tight t-shirts

Hairstyle
straightened and dyed black. Bright colors, such as blue, pink, red, or bleached blond, are also typical as highlights in emo hairstyles.

stereotype

emotional, sensitive, shy and introverted.It has also been associated with depression, self-injury, and suicide.

2009/08/06

Demographics of Malaysia




Muslim 60.4%, Buddhist 19.2%, Christian 9.1%, Hindu 6.3%, Confucianism, Taoism, other traditional Chinese religions 2.6%, other or unknown 1.5%, none 0.8% (2000 census)

Islam in Malaysia

About 60 percent of the total population are Muslims in Malaysia and most of the followers of Islam are Malays. Commonly cited estimates of the Muslim population in 2007 range from 1.3 billion to 1.8 billion.

Islam is a religion of faith. Muslims believe in the sovereignty and supremacy of Allah. To be a genuine Muslim is to submit absolutely to the word of Allah.

BUDDHISM IN MALAYSIAN

Buddhism is the second largest religion in Malaysia, after Islam, with 19.2% of Malaysia's population being Buddhist. Buddhism in Malaysia is mainly practised by the ethnic Chinese Malaysians.Buddhism was introduced to the Malays and also to the people of the Malay Archipelago as early as 200 BCE.

Hinduism in Malaysia

Hinduism is mainly practiced by the Indian population residing in the country. Around 9% of the population of Malaysia are Tamil Indians, of whom nearly 90 percent are practising Hindus.

Christianity in Malaysia

Christianity in Malaysia is a minority religion practise by 9% of the population (2000 census), most living in East Malaysia. Early Christian presence in the Malay archipelago may be traced as early as the 7th century.

Sikhism in Malaysia

The Sikh community in Malaysia owes its beginnings in the country to the British connection and in particular with the recruitment of Sikhs for the paramilitary and police units. The first of these units was the Perak Sikhs.The Sikhs believe and worship the one and only God who is formless. Hence, idol worship is denounced by the Sikh scriptures.

2009/08/03

custom

wedding malay

invesitage >make a proposal of marriage>marriage proposal[ accept ] >enggaged>nikah ceremony>bersanding

When a man who love someone,want to married with her beloved.
firstly,he should go to his beloved house investigate about his beloved either already taken by someone else or not.

If his beloved single,man's family can ask the shape of ring and if the girl's family agree,they decide the date of a proposal of marriage.when the day of a proposal marriage,half of man's family will came to beloved's house.At a same day,they will discuss about date of engagement,dowry,some of relatives will come that day.
Traditionally, the relatives of the young man approach the girl's parents and once an agreement is reached the betrothal ceremony will be performed. In fact two are performed, one at the man's house and one at the bride's.She receives at least a gold ring.Other presents like tepak sirih,kain sarung,bunga rampai and etc.


sirih junjung

Religious solemnisation of the marriage takes place on the wedding eve. Known as the Nikah ceremony rite is required by both the Islamic law and the civic law to legalise a Malay wedding.

The actual wedding days is called the bersanding . This litteraly means the "sitting together of the bride and bridegrooms of the bridal couch". Known as the pelamin (dais), this couch is the centrepiece of the whole ceremony, and two pelamin (dais) are required - one in the bride`s house and the other in the bridegroom`s. Bersanding ceremony customarily takes place in the afternoon, at the agreed time, the bridegroom is escorted in a procession with a hadrah or kompang band (male music group) to his bride`s house. On arrival, he has to pay a 'tax' in the form of money to the girl family`s before he enters each door leading to the pelamin (dais) to take his place besides his bride. The groom then sits with the bride on the 'pelamin' (dais).